December 8, 2011 § 3 Comments
51. Some people have very noisy coats
52. The tiptoeing thing people do when they are late into church doesn’t work.
53. When you go to see the Bishop about your future, bear in mind that he might have said his prayers that morning. But then again, he might just have a gap to fill.
54. You drink more Communion wine than anyone else. You owe it to yourself to make it decent.
55. The Press has a memory shorter than a goldfish, and works on whims and timescales more rapid than a toddler in a toyshop. You will not change this.
56. No church hall booking system ever works.
57. Common Worship was written so that people previously at enmity with each other could have something to moan about together.
58. No one is ever happy about car parking arrangements.
59. Account very carefully for special collections, and write within nano seconds to the donor and recipient.
60. People who light a candle when they say a prayer are not being superstitious. The Holy Spirit is helping them with sighs too deep for words.
December 6, 2011 § Leave a comment
Seem to have started something here – a few more then.
41. No Year 1 assembly will survive if you mention the word ‘Christmas’.
42. You can always tell a Bishop but you can’t tell him much.
43. Services are better when planned with other people. Your week will be better if you don’t have as many meetings. In the middle of this tension God is to be found.
44. Each one of your parishioners is made in God’s image. You just need to look harder at some of them.
45. Annual Parochial Church Meetings would be enlivened if people could be voted off rather than on. But you might be first.
46. The person at your door asking for money and food might be a prophet. But they just be dangerous and frightening to your family and you have to be careful.
47. The recycled sermon you use in desperation will be the only one someone remembers from the first time.
48. All pews are sacred.
49. Sending a text at the right time can be a deeply pastoral act.
50. Hardly anyone will refuse if you offer to pray for them.
December 4, 2011 § Leave a comment
22. There is never a pen in your cassock pocket. Even when you know you left one there the last time you had it on.
23. There is a ‘right’ tune for every hymn. It’s just not the one you chose.
24. You should never take your diary with you to church.
25. Visiting on spec is a waste of time because no one is ever in during the day. Except for the people who are.
26. Everything stops in September. You thought that’s when it started, but that’s when your congregation (who are all retired) go on cruises.
27. You don’t have to make an emergency dog collar any more if you’ve forgotten the real one. Just say you agree with Archbishop Sentamu’s stand on these things.
28. People have long memories, and everyone is related to everyone else. Be careful.
29. The DAC is your friend, and the Faculty process will save your life (Anglicans only).
30. Who else can pronounce a blessing on people and say it’s work?
December 3, 2011 § 1 Comment
12. The most emotional funeral visit is the one you’re not expecting to be.
13. Saying ‘yes please’ when offered a drink in someone’s home is an extreme sport.
14. You can’t help watching someone’s TV, even with the sound turned down.
15. Being more interested in the parents’ Mercedes/motor bike/hi-fi rather than their baby is not good form on a baptism visit.
16. Just because you’re on Twitter doesn’t make you acceptable to the young.
17. You are not there to outshine the Bride, nor give the Best Man’s speech.
18. Organists are uniformly lovely, and uniformly misunderstood.
19. people who say they are sorry for disturbing you because you’re very busy really mean it, and really are.
20. No other role gets you involved in the highest and lowest points of people’s lives, especially not all in the same afternoon.
December 2, 2011 § 1 Comment
1. The house you are looking for in the dark will be the one without a number.
2. You will receive your first complaint about a service you thought was brilliant within ten minutes of arriving home.
3. No doorbell ever works.
4. The only people who ring before nine o’clock in the morning are undertakers or Bishops.
5. The one time you answer the phone in an amusing way will be the one time you wish you hadn’t.
6. No dog which ‘just wants to play’ should be trusted.
7. You should always have a grace ready. Or ‘a few words’. Or (in Africa) a sermon.
8. You think that wearing a dog collar will get you a better deal, or give weight when you complain. It won’t.
9. In a PCC meeting even those you know well will say stuff that you wouldn’t believe.
10. No, it’s not a job. Yes, it is the best in the world.